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April 20, 2008

50th Birthday Gifts

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“50th Birthday Gifts”

50th birthday gifts and ideas to give someone turning 50. There are many 50th birthday gifts that you can give someone turning the big 5-0.  We all remember the joys of getting presents as a child.  Who could forget the brightly painted wrapping paper flying everywhere, the bows and the cards, and finally under all of that, a gift that has been long waited for.  It is a truly unique pleasure, as a child, to get a new toy or game.  But as we get older, it changes.  It becomes less about the present that you get and more about the connection that you feel to the person who gave it to you.  The idea that it is not the gift but the thought that counts does not really hold for children, but it becomes more and more true as we get into adulthood.  This is why, sitting here and trying to pick out a 50th birthday gifts for my wife, I am rethinking the approach that I usually take to getting a gift.

A 50th birthday gift marks a momentous occasion in the life of a loved one.  It is always hard to get 50th birthday gifts for someone, but it is doubly hard when that someone is the person that you have chosen to spend your whole life with.  In most cases, people opt to get some kind of corny 50th birthday gifts , something that is safe and humorous.  Most 50th birthday presents that I’ve seen come with a card that has some joke about being “over the hill”.  In every other way, 50th birthday gifts are usually the same as any birthday gift you would get for someone.

But I wanted the 50th birthday present I got for my wife to be something special.  I was not happy just getting her a book, or some jewelry, or some clothing, or a trip to some exotic location.  We do things like that for each other every year.  Sometimes, for a 50th birthday present, people will give a charitable donation to some organization in their honor.  I thought about this, but ultimately I decided against it.  We give, after all, a lot of money to charity.  Finally, I figured out what I wanted to give.  I sat down with all of our old photos and made a scrapbook.  It was not just a normal scrapbook, but one that was made to tell the story of our whole life together.  It took me weeks to finish, but when I was done it was beautiful.  I’m sure it will make a perfect 50th birthday present.

April 14, 2008

50th Birthday Ideas

“50th Birthday Ideas”

5oth birthday ideas for your 50th birthday. Great 5oth birthday ideas including gifts, party themes, and 50th birthday invitations. Do you know what it feels like to turn fifty? If forty marks the “over-the-hill” point, the 50th birthday has to be a shocker. If you’re just twenty one, someone who is turning fifty may seem as old as Methuselah. You simply can’t imagine being that old.

Unfortunately, for those of us who have actually reached this point, it can be a bittersweet coming of age. Geez, you think, I never thought I could be so old.

You start to look in the mirror, squinting to find a new wrinkle or some saggy skin hiding somewhere. You recently noticed you can’t read the directions and dosage of that allergy medicine without reading glasses! Yikes. What’s the world coming to? When winter comes and cold sets in, you may wake up with stiffness in your hands. These telltale clues only confirm what your subconscious has been nagging you about for some while now. Age is creeping up on you, and everything’s not quite as sharp as it was thirty years ago.

When you were twenty one, life was a long adventure that stretched into forever. Now, twenty nine short years later, with that 50th birthday looming, things look different. Now you’re smart enough to know that your long adventure is getting shorter. This can be a difficult realization. You can’t understand why you never saw this coming, but it’s just the way of life.

In a crisis of this proportion, you need to look on the bright side and regain some of your youthful optimism! Count your blessings if you’ve taken good care of yourself. If you haven’t, then there’s no time like the present to begin corrective measures. Attaining a 50th birthday is an opportunity to make an honest assessment of where you’re at and where you’d like to be a year from now. Analyze your lifestyle, accomplishments and interests and see how you can turn the clock back a bit. Some parts of life just irrevocably creep in, like those darn reading glasses, reminding you that you can’t be twenty one again.

On the other hand, you’ve walked the talk in terms of experience and challenges met. You couldn’t have met those challenges thirty years ago. Your 50th birthday should be a celebration of youthful passion enhanced by marriage, children and perhaps grandchildren, friends or just plain experience in this great mystery of life.

All things considered, a 50th birthday is a milestone of your journey through life. View that glass of lemonade as more than half full and adopt an attitude that looks forward to all life offers.

Remember, it’s likely you have many years before you and more free time to pursue your dreams. Live life with passion and you’ll find continued joy. Fifty isn’t old!

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